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Wedding favors are the thing most often left on the table: cut this first when the budget is tight
Wedding favors typically run $2–$10 each 💵. A hundred guests is $200 to $1,000. And they're the single item most likely to be left behind on the table.
Why they get left
On the way out, guests already have a coat, a bag, some drinks in them, and possibly a child by the hand. The decorative little glass jar on the table is one more thing to carry, not something they want.
Having decorative favors left over in large quantities is the norm, such as photo frames engraved with names and dates, printed coasters, or small candles. The problem with these is simple: they mean something to you, but nothing to your guests.
Two kinds do get taken
- EdibleFor example, wedding candy, cookies, honey, or tea bags. Eaten right on the spot or taken home to eat, they will never turn into clutter.
- UsefulItems like bottle openers, small bags of coffee, or hand cream actually get used up.
The test is simple: if your names and the date weren't printed on it, would anyone still want this? If the answer is no, it stays on the table.
Tight budget? Cut this
This is the item on the whole checklist I'd most directly say you can skip.
Because it's the only element nobody notices the absence of. Without favors, no guest feels the wedding was incomplete; move that money to food, drinks or a late-night snack and the difference is obvious.
If you have to cut, the suggested order is: favors → decor details → the scale of the florals. What not to cut: the coordinator (see item 24 of the checklist), photography, catering.
The Chinese wedding alternative
Taiwanese weddings customarily give wedding cakes or candyThis works completely fine for a wedding held in the US, and it is even better received than American-style decorative favors because it is food.
Some practical options:
- Wedding candy or small boxed cakesOlder relatives are familiar with them, and younger guests don't mind them either.
- Small packets of teaIf you are having a tea ceremony, this ties in perfectly (see item 43 on the checklist).
- Taiwanese snacksIt feels like quite a novelty for American guests.
If older relatives are flying in from Taiwan, they might expect traditional wedding cakes as part of the occasion. You can ask first to see if this is something where its absence would make them feel like something is missing.
If you do them, how to raise the take-home rate
- Put them at the exit rather than on tablesLetting guests grab one on their way out is much easier than asking them to remember to take one from their table.
- Make them immediately edible
- Order fewerAiming for about 80% of your attending guest count is plenty, as there will always be people who don't take one.
In one line
Only edible or practical items actually get taken home. On a tight budget, this is the top item to cut, though older Chinese relatives may still expect wedding cakes.