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Adding your spouse to health coverage has a deadline: 30 days for an employer plan, 60 for the Marketplace

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The first deadline after the wedding is health insurance: an employer group plan requires you to request coverage within 30 days of the marriage, and the Marketplace gives you 60. If you have household registration in Taiwan, registering the marriage there also comes with a 30-day deadline. A name change, a new W-4 and beneficiary updates have no legal deadline, but the later you make them, the more accounts you'll have to catch up on afterwards.

Below, everything is in date order. For taxes and immigration we only list the timing set by official rules; the details are on the money planning site and the visa and documents site.

Within 30 days of the wedding

Within 60 days of the wedding

No legal deadline, but the sooner the better

Name change: The order is Social Security Administration (SSA) first, DMV second, passport after that. If SSA's records haven't been updated, the DMV's system may not find your new name. For the full process, see The full name-change process after marriage.

W-4: Give your employer a new one after the wedding. Dual-income households in particular should recalculate withholding, or they may owe a lump sum at tax time. See An unrevised W-4.

Beneficiaries: Beneficiary designations on a 401(k), IRA or life insurance policy take priority over a will. See A beneficiary designation beats a will.

Emergency contacts: Switching the emergency contact at work, at the hospital and at school to your spouse costs nothing.

The one day that matters: December 31

The Internal Revenue Service (IRS) decides whether you're married or single based on the last day of the tax year, which for most people is December 31 (IRS Publication 501, checked 2026-10-22). Marry before December 31 and you file as married for that entire year, choosing either married filing jointly or married filing separately.

If your spouse isn't a U.S. tax resident, see the money planning site for how to choose in the first year.

For gifts to a spouse who isn't a U.S. citizen, the 2026 annual exclusion is US$194,000 (IRS Rev. Proc. 2025-32, checked 2026-10-14). The rules are different if your spouse is a U.S. citizen.

Three more things if your spouse has an immigration case in progress

All three are points in an immigration case's timeline. For what to do in your specific case, see the visa and documents site.

Frequently asked questions

How soon after the wedding do I need to add my spouse to my health insurance?

For an employer group plan, the U.S. Department of Labor says to request coverage within 30 days of the wedding; for the Marketplace, pick a plan within 60 days. Your employer may set a shorter window, so go by what HR says.

If we marry in December, do we file as married for that year?

Yes. The IRS determines marital status as of the last day of the tax year, so marrying before December 31 means you count as married for the whole year.

Should I change my name first or register the marriage in Taiwan first?

You can do both at the same time, but registration in Taiwan has a 30-day deadline and a name change doesn't. If your Taiwan passport also needs the new name, you can prepare the documents together with the Taiwan registration; see Change the name on your Taiwan passport together with the household registration.

All of these deadlines are laid out as a checklist in the after-the-wedding chapter of My Wedding Plan, with the timing and the consequence of missing each item. There's a free version, and you can start without leaving an email address; once you choose both partners' status, the items tied to your spouse's status are added to the list.

Sources (checked 2026-10-22)

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